Kink of the Week: Crops
Monday, February 17th, 2014So, this week’s Kink of the Week is crops. We only own one crop, from TrussedUK, which was purchased for the bargainous sum of £6! Part of why I opted for a cheap and cheerful model was the fact that I’m not hugely into crops, as stingy play isn’t something I like too much […]
e[lust] #55
Saturday, February 15th, 2014Photo courtesy of Sex with Rose Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #56? Start with the […]
STIs and OAPs
Wednesday, February 12th, 2014So, recently Gawker published an article on condom usage and STI rates among senior citizens in the states. Apparently, doctors are noticing a growing problem with sexually transmitted infections – and as tempting as it is to see only the humour in this situation, it’s something that needs tackling and the routes to do so may […]
TMI Tuesday: Happy Endings
Tuesday, February 11th, 2014So this is my first time participating in TMI Tuesday. I’ve been meaning to for a while, and if you’d like to see who else is playing or fancy joining in yourself, hop over to the TMI Tuesday site. This week, we’re talking happy endings. 1. What is the best way you like to be […]
Easy Come, Easy Go? SSRIs and Anorgasmia.
Saturday, February 1st, 2014These are my anti-depressants. They help with my anxiety, and they make me feel a little better generally. Sometimes I forget how much they do for me. This soon changes when I forget to take them for a few days, and I remember the difference they make. I’ve been on them for about four […]
Wicked Wednesday: Nervous
Wednesday, January 29th, 2014We lie in bed together, spooning. Tonight, I’m little spoon, cosy in your arms. Your hand drifts, and finds my neck. I gasp, and I’m glad of it as you cut off my air. Just as it becomes too much, you release your grasp. My heart beat has quickened, My returned breath shallow and fast. […]
KOTW: Biting
Thursday, January 16th, 2014I’m a big fan of biting. As a “primal” identifying kinkster, it does something to me I can’t quite do justice to in the written word. Biting, scratching, wrestling – all things that get me hot and need no tools or toys to engage in. Biting has always turned me on, for as long as […]
So Many Steps Back…
Wednesday, January 15th, 2014Serious interlude, normal service to resume once judges stop being ridiculous… This article over on Jezebel infuriated and saddened me. Probably a whole other bunch of emotions too, but I can’t even articulate them. The piece is about a Swedish judge who ruled a man not guilty of rape even though his victim shouted […]
Play Rape
Monday, January 13th, 2014I’d been planning to write about play rape for a while and now seems like a good time to do so, for reasons that will become clear later on. Play rape is a reasonably common fantasy but is often considered a taboo, even today. For some, perhaps it just feels too “wrong” to admit to, […]
New Years Resolutions – Kinky, Sexy and Bloggy.
Thursday, January 9th, 2014Admittedly this is a little late as it’s already a week or so into 2014, but I wanted to post some kind of record of what I’m hoping to do or change in the coming year… 1. Get fitter. I know this doesn’t sound related in the slightest to sex or kink, but in […]
